How is it sometimes, that appetizers and leftovers are more satisfying than the main course?
While I do not think that this final installment is the chef’s kiss, for some reason it reminds me of appetizers and leftovers.
In the course of an actual meal, some of the thoughts below may have been better served as appetizers in the first post. With the main meal being in the second post and, of course, some of the thoughts below being served as leftovers in the finale.
Nonetheless, here it is in all its glory, or lack thereof to do with it what you will. All in all, I do hope if edifies in one way or another.
If you haven’t read the first two installments, I’d suggest you start with these links: Part 1 and Part 2.
Bon Appetit
Tom
The Bone to Pick
As I’ve revisited and revised this series, I noticed something. The bone I have mainly to pick regarding this subject revolves around a certain area of Christianity. The practice of tithing that I have been describing to you seems to be more prevalent in the Pentecostal or Charismatic Evangelical circles as well as “non-denominational” Evangelical churches who, from my impression, usually have a contemporary flair to them with some flavor of Pentecostal or Charismatic, though they usually do not go as far down the path. To be sure, with very few exceptions, as I was reflecting on my time of “comparing notes” years ago with other believers about their church experience, I was talking to many people who had come out of churches with similar backgrounds and scriptural leaning. Looking back, I would dare say the majority of pastors, teachers, preachers and evangelists – well known or unknown – who preached the tithe as I learned and understood it, were predominantly in the those circles. Further, in varying degrees of belief or support, they were connected to the Prosperity Gospel and “name it and claim it” bunch.
I was tempted to put a list of the “well-known” preachers and evangelists on here, but I decided that wasn’t what I was after. I will mention one, however, as he has apparently repented of his prior teachings: world-renowned televangelist and mega-church pastor, Creflo Dollar renounced past teachings on giving and tithing. He went so far, the article states, to say in his message, “throw away every book, every tape, and every video I ever did on the subject of tithing.“ How about that!
As my wife and I look for a church to attend in our area, imagine the surprise and relief of yours truly after visiting a few churches in my area and seeing that they do not harp on, belabor or take any sort of time preaching on tithing or giving. Of the services we’ve been to, these particular churches either perform a song and pass the plate around for those who wish to give during that time, or they have a giving box located in the back of the church for people to give as they wish – or both.
Giving to your church body in a faithful manner isn’t wrong by any means. Hopefully I’ve made that clear in the subtext. My bone to pick is with anyone who uses Scriptures to emotionally manipulate money out of the hands of believers and in to the coffers of a church or pockets of a minister.
Leftover Malachi served with a sprig of Matthew
I want to first refresh your memory with the oft quoted command of tithing as captured in the book of Malachi:
“Will a man rob God?
Yet you have robbed Me!
But you say,
‘In what way have we robbed You?’
In tithes and offerings.
9 You are cursed with a curse,
For you have robbed Me,
Even this whole nation.
10 Bring all the tithes into the storehouse,
That there may be food in My house,
And try Me now in this,”
Says the Lord of hosts,
“If I will not open for you the windows of heaven
And pour out for you such blessing
That there will not be room enough to receive it.11 “And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes,
Malachi 3:8-12, NKJV
So that he will not destroy the fruit of your ground,
Nor shall the vine fail to bear fruit for you in the field,”
Says the Lord of hosts;
12 “And all nations will call you blessed,
For you will be a delightful land,”
Says the Lord of hosts.
Now, we haven’t yet covered Matthew 6, but many of the preachers/teachers of the tithe like to sprinkle Jesus’s words in here to further emphasize the necessity of giving/tithing (first to your church and then to other ministries as you see fit):
19 “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; 20 but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. 21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
Jesus, Matthew 6:19-21 NKJV
I’m not going to try and breakdown Jesus’s words here nor would I dare to argue Jesus on what He said. I agree that there most certainly is a heart issue at play here. Having worked with finances and people’s money in one form or another for over two decades, people’s priorities are shown to a good degree in their spending. That said, I contend that it is manipulation to say that if you don’t give to your church or a particular minister or ministry, that it is proof that your heart isn’t heavenly minded.
With all that I’ve said up until now, one can boil down the message that is spread to these four points:
- Tithing is required by God (you can’t afford to not give) – Malachi 3
- Not giving/tithing (to a church/ministry/minister) is robbing God – Malachi 3
- Tithing & giving is the key to removing curses in life – Malachi 3
- Your heart is heavenly minded only if you are financially giving – Matthew 6
Conflict of Interest
Before I left the last church I was at, I had a heartbreaking encounter with a sister in Christ. She knew me as I “ministered” to her children in the Youth Group. She came to me for advice before a Sunday service. There we stood in the large foyer and she was asking me what to do regarding giving and tithing. She wanted to tithe but her husband was against it because they couldn’t afford it. She tells me that she wants to give but she doesn’t want to cause strife between her and her husband.
What do I think and what should she do?
Giving is the issue here. For all intents and purposes, she wants to be involved and she wants to give. I assure her that God sees her heart. I assure her that God desires unity between husband and wife more than tithing and that they aren’t going to be cursed if they don’t tithe. I go on to assure her that God will show her ways to give like she desires to give and love and honor her husband at the same time, because the giving she wants to do is from the heart. I give her examples of serving like the giving of her time; serving and blessing others. She seems to be encouraged and relieved at this news. We part ways and go to our separate pews and get ready for the morning service.
And guess what the message was about that Sunday morning? Tithing.
If ever there was a facepalm moment…
What is she to think? Who is she to believe? I’ve just told her she isn’t cursed for not being able to tithe and one of the very first things the pastor says is that we have to tithe in order to remove the curse.
Tithing without Legalism – does that even exist?
Let us extend Grace here. For the average believer, what is or “should” be at the heart of the tithing issue?
It is giving, right? Where to give, how to give, what to give and doing it joyfully with an open heart and hand. Giving with a heart that doesn’t seek to be seen for how much or when they give. Giving because a good cause is before us and we wish to give to it, yes? What better causes are there than the ones that advance the interests of the Kingdom?
I have to pause here, for I feel like a hypocrite. I haven’t given directly to a local church body or a solid ministry in a long time. Further, while I did seek out opportunities to make direct impact on people and a blessing, the amount of giving was definitely less compared to what I was routinely giving to the church. I didn’t do it to earn salvation or brownie points but sometimes I wonder if I had underlying motivations weren’t always what they “should” be.
I guess the bottom line here is: Make no mistake, I am not the best example in the ideals I’m espousing. I too, like many of us, have a hard time consistently matching the walk and the talk.
Moving on.
Can we “tithe” without falling in to a legalistic routine, without believing we must in order to be free of some curse?
I believe so. If you want to give 10% of your income, gross or net, whatever – you are completely free to do so.
What and how should you give? This is completely between God and you. If you are married, then it is between God, you and your spouse. If you are going to a church that is producing good fruit, helping to bring the Gospel to those who need it as well as giving good instruction from The Word – why wouldn’t you want to support them? If they aren’t doing these things: why would you want to stay anyways?
Further, any requirement of giving in order to be members needs to be taken seriously and prayerfully. This is a requirement set forth by men; fully fallible human beings, prone to mistakes and sin like the rest of us.
Practical Applications
Can there be practical applications for “tithing”? I’d like to think so.
Take 10% of your income and put it in a savings account, just let it build. Save for emergencies, unforeseen expenses, vacations and having funds stored up for when you want to give to a charity or ministry. Having these kinds of funds available reminds me of what Paul said in 2 Corinthians 9. Specifically, when you have promised a gift (to a coming minister), prepare ahead of time and be ready so you aren’t grudgingly getting it together. Purpose in your heart ahead of time what you will give, so that you may do it cheerfully with an open hand and open heart. There is a difference between giving because you “have to” meet a requirement and giving abundantly according to who you are in Christ and what He has done for you and blessed you with.
You could also use the tithe model to pay down your debts. Take 10% of your income, above what you are minimally paying on your debts and attack them to pay the debt off faster. As you do this, increase the momentum with the snowball effect, adding what you used to pay on one debt that is now gone to another debt and get free faster! What does it say in Romans, it is best to owe no man anything except to love him…?
Amusing Amuse-Bouche
I had to look that word up too. It is a bite-size appetizer, similar to hors d’oeuvres. So, the following are small little tidbits, no more than a bite or two.
- Tithing was never gold, silver or the coin of the realm or empire. It was constantly referred to in the Old Testament as the tithing of: grain, dough, fruit, produce, wine, oil, honey, herds and flocks – food. Quickly back to Malachi 3, “Bring all the tithes into the storehouse, That there may be food in My house”. It was to provide food for the Levites, priests, etc.
- What do you make of Jesus’s words in Matthew 23:23? “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you pay tithe of mint and anise and cummin, and have neglected the weightier matters of the law: justice and mercy and faith. These you ought to have done, without leaving the others undone.” No matter how faithfully one pays the tithe, one isn’t necessarily being generous, nor are they necessarily paying attention to things that matter more to God. One is merely meeting a requirement. In Luke 11, this “woe” is recorded as well with slightly different verbiage, “But woe to you Pharisees! For you tithe mint and rue and all manner of herbs, and pass by justice and the love of God. These you ought to have done, without leaving the others undone.”
- Jesus used a Parable in Luke 18:9-14 which mentions tithing, let us take a look at it: “Also He spoke this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and despised others: “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, ‘God, I thank You that I am not like other men—extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this tax collector. I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I possess.’ And the tax collector, standing afar off, would not so much as raise his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me a sinner!’ I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other; for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.” Notice that Jesus shows how the Pharisee lists his qualifications to God, is this not a picture of human nature? We wish to list all our righteous deeds, when in the end, without Christ, they are no more than garbage.
- The only mention of tithes in the New Testament to Christians is in the book of Hebrews and it isn’t instructions for Christians to tithe. Nowhere in the book of Acts, when the believers willingly pooled their resources, did the Apostles remind them of the law to tithe. Nowhere does Paul remind his Gentile converts that they need to tithe. In fact, Paul gets more angry at people trying to make his Gentile converts observe the Law! What is more, the term “fallen from Grace” comes from Paul’s writings, see Ephesians 5:4 “You have become estranged from Christ, you who attempt to be justified by law; you have fallen from grace.“
- To my reading of the New Testament, there is no doubt that giving and offerings within the Body, supporting believers as well as ministers of the Gospel, is definitely encouraged. What is the primary end for the means of tithes and offerings at a church nowadays? Where does the majority go first? Overhead. Mortgage expenses, property taxes, utilities, salaries, supplies, etc. Then it will possibly take some of that to mission work and outreach. These are understandable to a degree, but it still begs the question whether this is really what God intended for His Church?
- Many people who practice tithing are doing it with a sincere heart. I and many who share my current view were all tithing and giving sincerely. This isn’t the issue. The issue is that these ideas are promulgated not just from the pulpit but also by those who practice it – so it feeds itself, so to speak. Freely and willfully giving, offering, supporting the works in the Body that are worthy shouldn’t stop. The “doctrine” of tithing as I’ve been laying it out, and any other deceptive form it takes, should stop.
We aren’t being taught that we have also been made in the image of God in his generosity. We have settled for the ‘safe’ requirement of knowing how much to give instead of the ‘dangerous’ method of giving as we determine in our hearts to give (which means to give not only as you are led, but as you are moved to give). It’s a dangerous thing to give according to who you are in Jesus. I’ve been learning that. Because giving like that requires a generosity that isn’t based on anyone else’s performance. You go to a restaurant, for example, and instead of mentally taking away money from your server with every mistake or minute that she is late with the food – instead you give generously no matter how bad his or her service was. Because it is not about her performance, it is about who YOU are in Christ! You’ve been given a great gift by Grace, God’s unmerited favor, should you not extend grace to the one who served you?
In Closing …
I wouldn’t recommend it, but if you were to go back through the original three parts and compared them – there is much that I have deleted, revised and added to. I did these revisions because I’ve been on a homecoming journey for a couple years. It’s the only thing I can really call it, homecoming. Jesus coming to find a wandering lost Hobbit. I won’t be going back through all of my old stuff. There are a few fictional pieces that I thought were rather good and I may revisit them. But I plan, God willing, to share more current thoughts with you in the future.
Any blessings that I have are all by the Grace of God, not due to tithing. Out of my own “Christian” efforts or lack thereof, from the stubbornness I have as His child and of the sins I’ve committed and commit… I deserve none of the blessings I’ve received. It is His Grace and His Grace only that permits and allows the blessings I’ve had. His blessings are His prerogative, not mine.
He loves me. He loves you, too, dear reader.
His blessings on my life or your life are not determined by how faithful our tithing is. His Goodness and Grace lead me continually to the waters of repentance.
I hope they do that for you, too.